A Little Bit of Truth

February 22, 2013 sexyknees

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For those of you who have read my book, Sexy Knees, you know that there are a lot of references to rampant drug use and unprotected sex.  Though I say that everything in my book occurred as written, the truth is that I used a lot of artistic license to make my stories more exciting.  It reads a lot better to have someone shoot a load in my mouth than into a condom, doesn’t it?

Don’t get me wrong – Sexy Knees is definitely highly sexual.  During its production I enjoyed recalling past deeds and yes, they were all incredibly fun and exciting – especially the dangerous parts.  But my book is more about personal growth and exploration than sex, and is meant to encourage the reader to expand his/her boundaries and live without fear in pursuit of one’s dreams.

I did experiment…a LOT.  As a younger Nikki I was open to exploring anything and everything possible using my new identity and gender as an educational tool with the intention of helping others achieve their dreams.  Never did I eagerly pursue endeavors which would endanger my life or that of anyone else, however.  My subs were under a very protective wing and I made sure I was well protected, too.

It is important for you to know that I do not promote drug abuse or unprotected sex.  Do not do coke in a porn store and allow yourself to get banged all night just because I mentioned it in my book!  As with most things, fantasy is better than reality, and the reality is that you can get yourself into a lot of trouble if you do not practice precaution in your sexual pursuits.  Additionally, sex is always better sober and without the worry of catching a disease!

Being a transvestite or transsexual is a wonderful journey and one full of excitement and adventure.  There is no need to spice things up with drugs or dangerous sex with strangers.  Enjoy being the other gender in beauty and safety.  You are exploring yourself in a unique way and if your mind is altered it will be difficult to gain from the experience.  It is important to keep your thoughts clear so you can learn from your achievements.

Yes, there is a reason I am on this soapbox.  Over the many years I have been Nikki I have known quite a few people who have become drug addicts.  As much as I have tried to help them I have found it impossible as they are unwilling to help themselves.  I know a couple who went through $60,000 in 3 months while on a coke binge.  Can you believe that?  $60,000!  I could buy a brand-new BMW for that amount of cash.  Another friend is a rampant heroine abuser and a few more are life-long crack addicts.  These are not street people, by the way – they are upstanding members of the community who made bad choices and are now paying a terrible price.  My heart bleeds for them and I wish I could make things better.

So, please be careful, people.  I am here if you need me should you find yourself in trouble.  I promise to be better answering your comments and you are always welcome to write me if you need advice or are seeking help.  I am not ashamed of my activities but do not want to be a role-model leading to someone’s downfall.  My book is just that – a book.  If you are thinking about following my footsteps I advise you to contact me first, but be prepared to hear my honest opinion.  In the end, all I want is for you to be happy and safe!

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  • 1. zippyjet  |  February 23, 2013 at 11:49 am

    Dear Nikki: Well said and eloquent without being Oprah preachy! Very sage advice. Of course one of the perks of writing is to “schmaltz” it up and take poetic license and go “balls out.” Sometime one needs this to get their point across. The squeaky oil or hard pecker gets all the oil. (LOL). BTW, I’ve finished conversion training and am now officially part of the Southwest family. It’s an adjustment but am generally having a very good time. At least for March, my off days are Sunday and Monday. I can’t believe that we are already approaching Easter and for my case Passover! Seems like yesterday it was the holiday season. So, let me know how your schedule stacks up and we can take it from there. Of course being an airline employee we travel no charge but of course we are standby which is the bottom of the food chain but, if one schedules correct it’s not a problem to travel. Talk to you soon and look forward to some new pics accentuating your hotness. Look forward to see more barefoot shots, daisy duke cutoffs and you with your sexy knees rapped around a typewriter.

    Love, Simon ツ

    On Fri, Feb 22, 2013 at 12:29 PM, Nikki’s Blog

  • 2. Tonya Nicole  |  June 18, 2013 at 7:04 pm

    That is a great message and I hope more gurls read it and understand it. The world needs all the beauty in it, Especially the kind we gurls can add! I posted a pic on Flickr that I didn’t think would get a lot of views and I was actually surprised at how many views it got, It was me on a bed holding a condom with the title Safe Sex always and I had written a long comment about safer sex practices and had a link (I messed up revising it and it got lost have to redo it) I actually got quite a few comments on it as well! I hope at least a few gurls saw it and at least thought about it before doing anything they might regret. Of course I know many are just into it for the sex and take it any way they can get it and whether it is fantasy or their actual reality it is hard to tell, But it isn’t a good example for the younger gurls coming up and hopefully the new gurls will see a voice of reason and not open themselves up to all the nastiness that is out there(drugs and diseases!) Keep up the good work and the positive message Nikki you are one awesome chicky! Tonya

    • 3. sexyknees  |  June 21, 2013 at 2:40 am

      I agree with you 100%, Tonya. There are too many terrible things which can happen out there if you are not careful. Disease, drug addiction, and death – the three “d’s” as I call them – are all too common for both men and women who simply want to be adventurous and have fun. To all be safe – I am here to help if you need me!!!

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